I learn the 4 main reasons as to why people do not achieve the success they desire.
People are not successful 4 main reasons, You are not getting to the root cause of the issue. If your mindset is not set and programmed in a way that sees your desires as positive as you have previously learnt the thing you want is dangerous or will bring you pain in some way, you have unconsciously been programmed to repel it. Love, connection, fame, exposure, health, attention, money, friendships and because of these unconscious associates of pain it leads to the second reason, below
You are unable to take the necessary action because you believe that what you want is going to bring you pain, beliefs and thoughts control behaviors and, these leads to an ability to take effortless action and or feel confused stuck and lost.
You do not believe change is possible as your mind has convinced you changing your situation is going to be pointless, caused by low levels of self-esteem deciding for you what you can or cannot achieve or accomplish. If you were constantly put down you do not see success a possible and you see failure as a set point you must accept, so the key to change is to change this set point, so you can start accepting success as your new norm, In my book below I touch on how to start freeing yourself of this plague-like thinking.
You do not have an effective technique to remove your own limitations creating the reality you have now
Your mind has been designed to see life as hard, stressful painful and a miserable place, and challenges as dangerous you believe changing your situation will be an impossible task because your mindset has taken on belied that its just not possible, challenges are too hard, I can never really be successful so i am not going to make it so why to try right?
You do not have the skill set and the mindset congruent. One thing I learnt about growth it is doesn’t just take take the grown, if I grow and believe I can have a successful business yes that’s great that’s going to fuel my ability to take action, although without the skill set of talking to people and marketing my results would end up not so favorable, the thing is though if you do not believe it or feel worthy your not going to want to invest and take the necessary actions to get the skills you need to succeed your not lazy you mindset is just telling you its not going to happen
You fear responsibility success failure and committing to the life you want. in which I outline how these fears got into your mind and how to permanently remove them. find out find out why and how in my book below.
The one thing i want people to let go of to start.
The Number one Mistake People make to creating change and the most crucial key to success.
The biggest mistake, I see people make when it comes to lasting change in trying to attain the life they want, improved health, healthy perception of self, self-confidence, lack of stress over money, building a successful business, sticking to a routine and or moving from failure to success – is that you cannot fix your mind and get it to do what you want, by yourself or use willpower to change a habit or take action on a desire or use force. It takes years to understand the programmed fears you have accumulated as well as beliefs about yourself and the fear you took on that is blocking your path to success, beliefs and behaviors that are programmed to cause you to do what you do. Buried deep they drive an individual to feel stuck in every positive action they should be taking to improve their lives.
The second mistake I see is when individuals think they can use willpower for deeply ingrained habits. Yes, sure it can work on smaller programs, although you just can’t use willpower if your mind has been programmed to do a set of behaviours like spend money, eat badly eventually it will revert you back to its set point of comfort.
So if you cannot do it by force or willpower for lasting change, then what is the answer?
I’m inspired to share a message about the
#1 MOST important element for success: Commitment.
It amazes me to see, how many entrepreneurs, Dream Chasers and individuals SAY they’re committed to growing their business, reach their goals and achieve the success they so badly desire, to get off the train of failure, sabotage, fear and worry about there future, swamped with negative thinking and excuses and jump on the journey to discipline, effortlessness, commitment and a resilience to achieve success but when it comes time to ACT like they’re committed, they stall or backpedal.
I know from experience that having a foot or toe out of any venture is a recipe for disappointment. Your business and life are no different. You’ve got to be in it to win it, every step of the way.
Because even if you’re close to being fully committed (like a 9 on a scale of 1-10), as soon as challenges pop up in a project a goal or a desire, you want to bail instead of riding the waves and growing from the experience.
I’m sharing this reminder as I am frankly tired of people telling you to commit, people pushing others to commit to something that their mind is just not able to achieve. It doesn’t take more commitment, more willpower and definitely shouldn’t take you having to push harder and then beating yourself up for it, and frankly, anyone who tells you that you should or stop making excuses has no idea, how the mind works to get you from point A pain, to point B destination desire.
The secret is, – Your mind is resisting the pleasure you are seeking, whether it be more freedom, more love, more success, more closeness, the ability to be authentically you, the ability to achieve greater success in your business or just being, able to feel confident in your own skin, simply as it was designed that way to keep you safe from the very thing you are trying to achieve as it thinks that the thing you want is a danger to your survival. weird right?
But, What if you knew how to rewire your mind effortlessly to see what you wanted or were trying to achieve to be a pleasurable experience so that it propels you forward naturally with excitement instead of fear,? then what will you need to commit to.? Nothing really! The mind only fears something you have been negatively programmed to associate as a danger, meaning when you try and achieve it, the brain will signal your mind, to give you an excuse why you should avoid the action that will get you to your desired result. It works in mysterious ways whether it is an excuse, you instantly become unmotivated, your body feels tired, you start to feel unmotivated, you procrastinate, or in the sense of a relationship, you start to nitpick. These defense strategies are not natural states and are not coming from you nor are your fault. They are just negative association based on an old experience your mind is protecting you from experiencing again. Hence why a technique, or those who teach you their tricks to overcome it, only create a temporary result to overcome it and a band-aid solution that creates temporary plus of action the procrastination, small success then for you to spiral down again.
What this means is…
To imply one needs to commit means that one needs to push past fears, feel the fear and do it anyway and push past the negative associations of the thing you are desiring bringing you pain. it just doesn’t work that way. Funny that !… it makes everything feel like hard work.
So what is the Secret to Success?
We run from what we think will bring us pain and we attract what we feel will bring us pleasure, If success is associated with pain in your mind, for example, failure, humiliation or potential criticism of you becoming wildly successful, then your path will be tiresome. Yes take their advise and commit to pain and watch your mind resist success like it is the plague.
Your mind will then start feeling sleepy, more tired, less motivated and then you will beat yourself up for it saying, I just need to commit .. Okay if that is working for you, then keep at it and I wish you well on your path.
If you do not feel like you want to have those viruses there weighing you down, the secret is to remove the things stopping you from obtaining it. That’s it. there is no technique, special band aid solution that will work
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Secret 4 Felicity’s Take away formula to know if your goals are aligned with yours the little known secret on how to know, what you want? and where you want to go, even if you feel confused stuck and have no idea why you feel frustrated bored and unsuccessful by knowing how to uncover it, this secret no one is teaching so far, and when you hear it will know why with three main things you already have access to and without knowing this its almost impossible to set up a vision you will feel motivated towards and passionate about and or set up a life that’s authentic to you.
Secret 5 The most important rule as to how to make the changes effortless and why it has felt almost impossible in the past, and the one thing you can do to set yourself to make the changes and transition effortless. without this changes wont happen and your brain will generate a excuse every time you try and change your situation for the better.
Secret 6 The most important rule as to how to make the changes effortless and why it has felt almost impossible in the past, and the one thing you can do to set yourself to make the changes and transition effortless. without this changes wont happen and your brain will generate a excuse every time you try and change your situation for the better.
Secret 7 We all know that mindset is imperative and gets you to success quicker, but what no one understands about a mindset is that whilst fears are present they generate excuse after excuse that eventually leads to sabotage , with this secret of what to do instead to make taking action effortlessly so your mind doesn’t generate excuses at all. the number one thing that will get you to attract success and opportunities to you in dozens, without this, your mind will not know how will not attract the opportunities necessary to create your success and you will be left wondering why nothing is working out the way you had planned
Secret 8 The Banish my fear on how others view me, do you worry about what others will think of you , Learn, the number one secret to having such a confident self-perception that you become untouchable, hint this is not to be mistaken with the types of confidence out there that gets knocked down or is built, to begin with, achievements of approval from others and as soon s that lost makes you feel small and worthless by critics , haters or people keeping you small, its the confidence that last and how to achieve this, without this challenges will seem harder than necessary
Secret 9 The secret to banishing overwhelmed and feeling like the challenges ahead are all too hard, and impossible for you, once you know this, your ability to prioritize and take actions and even know what the steps are will be executed one at a time in the exact sequence you need to do, hint once this is unlocked you mind will find a way to over come the obstacle, with it there you will waste years of not knowing the solutions.
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Secret 12 The truth behind why the self-development industry doesn’t work and why modalities are limited, in helping you create the life you desire, each modality is broken down to save you years of using the wrong tips and tricks that cause you to feel less inspired and more hopeless in getting you the help you need