Relationship Therapist

Common Questions I get from Couples and what i discovered about the Keys to Fixing and sustaining long term relationships and setting them up for success.

WELCOME! AS A PASSIONATE ENTREPRENEUR WHO MENTORS THOSE WHO DREAM BIG AND YEARN TO BUILD and want to know how to create a desirable passionate relationship, even if you feel that it isn’t possible, I’m thrilled you stopped by.

Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned as a former NLP Practitioner, and Mind Resonance Coach and Relationship Coach and probing the minds of the Individuals and couples  is that love and our relationships to others really affects our confidence and esteem in ourselves and that, romantics like yourself are never going to be happy settling for what you know as the norm, “relationships just die out after the honeymoon Phase”, Right?, well that is not true if you understand these steps.

Alternatively, I know you are not the type to let a skills gaps, mindset limitation, or relationship issues ,or petty arguments, keep you from building a life and relationship you dreamed of, of lasting attraction, mutual interdependence, love freedom and closeness and lots more freedom, joy and abundance.

If you’re reading this, Then I know we already share a love of romance, closeness, peace in our environments and a feeling of wanting success in all areas of our lives. Even if, at times, that concept scares you as much as it inspires you as you may have tried without much luck, in the past and failed.

That’s because it’s a grand vision that only those who are used to following their instincts – and driven to do whatever it takes– who yearn things, they may never have heard before, and be open-minded to hear things that may go against some of the so-called Expert writing books, men are from Mars, woman are from venus and just want a simple approach to getting this area to be a success.

If you have considered seeing  or have seen a relationship therapist in a attempt to improve romantic relationships and resolve interpersonal conflicts then that is what i do, but more.. Below i want to answer some of the common questions i get

So lets start by answering some common questions i get and i want to touch on how couples therapy is a little different to what i do and identify why i chose to move in this direction to better help the people i serve. I learnt along the path in my studies and through my own relationships struggles that changing any behaviour patters that cause relationships to fail, really needs more than conversations and emotional support systems.

The reason for this is that, the reason people deal with money, think of sex and communication treat their spouse and behave towards their spouse or partner,, ect is really determined by beliefs that either help you get the success you deserve in relationships or beliefs and relating patterns that cause failures in the crucial components that keep relationships together, like sex, mutual respect, shared values, feeling loved, wanted and desired, met needs ect.

I learnt that communication alone and talking things out is really ineffective for major problems couples face, creating loss of love attraction or liking towards each other and enjoyment in each others company.

Is it a good idea to see a Therapist for my relationship. Often, one of the most best outcomes of couples therapy is an increase in communication, and a major improvement in its quality. Communication is effective in expressing ourselves yes, and our ability to communicate can determine if we are heard and allow our partners to act on our feelings and unmet needs. Communication in general can allow the therapist to see if there is any limitations in your thinking that may be putting unnecessary pressure on your partner or making him or feel responsible for things that are really not a partners responsibility, for example, like being with you all the time and you feel upset that he doesn’t stay home ect and address underlying causes for tensions in the relationships.

What is the effectivness of Therapy

Traditional Couples therapy uses,  Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) is now roughly 75 percent. effective. I find that releasing emotions are not enough to fix underlying issues , therefore i do not use EFT i use MRP in which address;s underlying causes for emotional responses. I find i am better able to serve my clients, if i can help them once and fix the true causes or the relating issues so they do not need to continue it long term so they can actually have and enjoy the benefits from the improvements addressing underlying issues can achieve.

What are the benefits of couples counselling alone.

Here are just some of the couples counseling benefits you can expect from our work together:

  • Better communication with your partner and ability to communicate more often.
  • Deeper connection as smaller resentments are released..
  • More physical and emotional intimacy.

Why do couples go to counseling?

My clients mention and not all reasons include,

  • Are money problems in the relationship, or the spending patterns of one or both partners causing stress and worry to override feeling secure and positive towards the future,
  • Sex either, desires creating resistance in one partner or perfromance issues of one partner affecting sex and intimacy and feeling of connection
  • Although i find, most people will contact me, if they are frustrated and emotionally drained and want to feel heard seen and validated towards how they feel. Its my job to assess who each individual person is, in the partnership, ensure both are being true to themselves, there needs are being met, there values are aligned, and they both have the emotional maturity to create a partnership not dependant relationships or follow ship in which create loss of attraction, create feelings of resentments to builds extra pressure on both partners other areas of lives.


I am Felicity Muscat, founder of the Institute of Self Mastery. I’m a trained Master NLP Practitioner, Master Mind Resonance Coach , author of over 200 articles In Psychology, Mindset, Success and Business & Relationships, A Relationships coach and Couples therapy specialist.  

My drive that propelled me to do what i do and figure out the key to Successful relationships is this , 

An extraordinary life is created by an ability to form relationships and create bonds to others, we as humans were not designed to need space form other humans, or to be on our own, yes we can survive on our own but what is optimal for our wellbeing is being connected to others in relationships and community. 

Felicity Muscat Institute Of Self Mastery

The problem with not being able to create this, is we create what we do not want, as opposed to what we do not want and start to believe relationships mean hard work, relationships are painful, I am better off alone.

If you would like to learn more on some foundational principles to create great relationships, you can email me for the ten steps to creating amazing relationships

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