Relationship Coach Felicity Muscat writes about ineffectiveness of relationship Counselling alone to increase attraction, connection and Love from her personal experiences of having relationships that were far from perfect and touches on the real reasons why relationships break down and how couples need to aim at workable solutions to the real problems.
WELCOME! AS A PASSIONATE ENTREPRENEUR WHO MENTORS THOSE WHO DREAM BIG AND YEARN TO BUILD and want to know how to create a desirable passionate relationship, even if you feel that it isn’t possible, I’m thrilled you stopped by.
Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned as a former NLP Practitioner, and Mind Resonance Coach , Relationship Coach and probing the minds of the Individuals is that love and our relationships to others really affects our confidence and esteem in ourselves and that, romantics like yourself are never going to be happy settling for what you know as the norm, “relationships just die out after the honeymoon Phase”, Right?, well that is not true
.Alternatively, I know you are not the type to let a skills gaps, mindset limitation, or petty arguments, keep you from building a life and relationship you dreamed of, of lasting attraction, mutual interdependence, love freedom and closeness and lots more freedom, joy and abundance.
If you’re reading this, Then I know we already share a love of romance, closeness, peace in our environments and a feeling of wanting success in all areas of our lives. Even if, at times, that concept scares you as much as it inspires you as you may have tried without much luck, in the past and failed.
That’s because it’s a grand vision that only those who are used to following their instincts – and driven to do whatever it takes– who earn things, they may never have heard before, and be open-minded to hear things that may go against some of the so-called Expert writing books, men are from Mars, woman are from venus and just want a simple approach to getting this area to be a success.
If you have considered Couples therapy (also couples’ counseling, marriage counseling, or marriage therapy) in a attempt to improve romantic relationships and resolve interpersonal conflicts then that is what i do, but more..
I also know that getting your relationships back on track is only one part of your dream as when our relationships fail so does other areas of our lives, it’s just the way it works as relationship failures cause stress and overwhelm to leak and sap our motivation for all other areas and things we used to love.
Why is this? Because along the path, I learnt in getting my mindset right to have the best relationships that I could imagine, is this. When a love interest or partner triggers our fears, unmet beliefs and old triggers, it can throw our whole lives off track, and that is precisely what happened to me until after eight years of trial and error I figured out how to change it.
You see, I didn’t have a choice, I learnt as a young child, that relationships cause you pain and suffering, relationships cause you pain and hurt, relationships mean control, losing my freedom, never being able to do what you want, and a relationship is like a ball and a chain.
Before I realised what my negative perceptions of relationships wherein which were not mine and where making the decisions for me, I ensured, not only that I acted upon what I believed, but I also took on whatever beliefs I could to ensure I didn’t end in miserable ever after and or attracting someone into my life that would hurt me in which I learnt relationships were all about.
I to my detriment, become terrible at maintaining them, drawing great ones into my life and then poof, sabotaging it with my insecurities, fears beliefs, arguments, and knew nothing how conflicts start, what creates them and not a absolute clue, as to why I was so dependant on others to make me happy.
So, however blocked you may feel at the moment, you believe challenges are just temporary, and that excellence and being the best version of you is the only standard worthy of targeting!
I am Felicity Muscat, founder of the Institute of Self Mastery. I’m a trained Master NLP Practitioner, Master Mind Resonance Coach , author of over 200 articles In Psychology, Mindset, Success and Business & Relationships, A Relationships coach and Couples therapy specialist.
My drive that propelled me to do what i do and figure out the key to Successful relationships is this ,
An extraordinary life is created by an ability to form relationships and create bonds to others, we as humans were not designed to need space form other humans, or to be on our own, yes we can survive on our own but what is optimal for our wellbeing is being connected to others in relationships and community.
Felicity Muscat Institute Of Self Mastery
The problem with not being able to create this, is we create what we do not want, as opposed to what we do not want and start to believe relationships mean hard work, relationships are painful, I am better off alone.
A mindset coach and relationship coach who helps Women and Men in relationships who are struggling to get connection and attraction back in their relationships and who are at odds as to how to get their minds back to clear thinking, balance in love, life and relationships. Who wants to feel secure with each other in the bond, even if you are distant and constantly fighting, and can’t stand the sight of each other so that you can recreate more love, intimacy and more time spend living their best lives together, not your lonely lives apart.
The great thing about working with a counsellor is the below
The basic principles for a counselor include:
- Provide a confidential dialogue, which normalizes feelings
- To enable each person to be heard and to hear themselves
- Provide a mirror with expertise to reflect the relationship’s difficulties and the potential and direction for change
- Empower the relationship to take control of its own destiny and make vital decisions
- Deliver relevant and appropriate information
- Changes the view of the relationship
- Improve communication
- Set clear goals and objectives
I do believe that expression of self is imperative for great relationships, i found that along the journey there were another 10 elements that create amazing relationships and if you enjoy reading can download my free chapter on the ebook , the book contains excerpts from the below.
TEN STEPS TO FULFILLING A DESIRABLE RELATIONSHIP
Step 1,Know who you are and what vision you want to create for your love life.
Step Two: Conscious Positive Thoughts Create Positive Actions,
Step Three: Self Awareness is a Compass for Self Mastery in knowing what you believe you are worth,
Step Four: Know that we have value for who we are, not what we do.
Step Five: Respect and Honour Your True Self be your true self and don’t be afraid that it will cause rejection by our spouse.
Step Six: Express Yourself and Speak Your Truth, know you have value.
Step Seven: Believe you are whole and complete and remove anything in your thinking, convincing you to need anything from another person and watch your lack of attachment attract it to you.
Step Eight: Stop Trying to Rescue People,
Step Nine: Create Emotional Maturity and Sexual Intimacy and remove yourself from masculine-feminine restrictive roles
Step Ten: Be the Change that you Seek
if you would desirable Relationship, can email me with the workable version Chapter one, of the Ebook the ten steps to Magnificent relationships
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