Hopelessly Fearful of Stepping Up to face Life? Smash the Taboo
How do you banish the fear of stepping up permanently? Why are the excuses it generates in your head more than just a fear? And why has it unconsciously programmed you into allowing it to reside inside of you?
Are you someone who is haunted by these questions and the thought of stepping up makes you unsure of why this fear motivates you to avoid doing the one thing you know you must do? Do you have that feeling of helplessness, to understand why this thing has such a hold on you and why all the so-called “experts” have not helped you remove these things from inside of you? If you feel these mysteries then this article is for you.
If you would like to finally take back control over your life, mind and body, regain the sense of spontaneity to go after what you want; whether it be the relationship or that business idea then this article will shed some light on how that thing took the driver’s seat in your life and what you can do about it. If you are expecting techniques or some tips then this article will not provide that, but more so will explain why that thing took command of your life and what it will create in your life whilst you allow it to reside inside of your body.
Firstly, after studying the human mind for 12 years and reading ridiculous articles, I want to educate you on why “feel the fear and do it anyway” has locked you further into a program that the so called experts use, to move around fear and give some hope as to why “feel the fear and do it anyway” cannot challenge this thing. Understanding fear and how it is formed is the first step to understanding how it got inside of you and how you unconsciously have accepted it to be inside of you.
As a child you come into this world; every fear inside of you has been programmed into you by a collection of negative experiences, which serves to protect you from experiencing old unconscious pain inside of you. You might be asking what unconscious experience would this fear be protecting. In your most vulnerable years, when you are vulnerable to being hypnotised by those around you and when you are primarily dependent on others to form your sense of self, then is where we form our unconscious projection into the world. Therefore the fear step of stepping up has been programmed into you as a way of keeping you safe from further hurt, harm and danger.
Underneath the fear and anxiety lies an unconscious memory, which tells you that when you did step up, the consequences were too negative for you to handle. As a child, the negative consequences of you stepping up could have resulted in abuse, harm, hurt and further rejection, so as a way for your mind to keep you safe and cope with early stages of life, you unconsciously develop a fear of stepping up. The only problem with having this inside of you as a mature adult is that, you now have the ability to make healthy choices and the free will to choose better for yourself, therefore the fear that you developed as child when you were helpless, no longer serves you. The issue is that most grown adults still allow it to reside inside of them as a protective strategy for survival, limiting their potential, career opportunities and staying in unfulfilled relationships. To further reside in the unconscious barbed wire fence that thing has created, causes anxiety and nervousness every time you try to bypass and move into a new or more fulfilling life for yourself.
This fear stops business owners from fully stepping up to the potential of what could be, it stops individuals from going after a newer opportunity and further creates feeling of helplessness, depression and anxiety. Every time it threatens to re-trigger the unconscious pain stored inside of you, the critical voice is the gate keeper of this pain and actually speaks to you in a way that serves to keep you small. So yes, “feel the fear and do it anyway” can work, although the resistance this thing generates causes you to miss out on the fullest expression of life, in which you have the power to create.
Over a decade ago, a process was discovered in which you could finally eradicate all unconscious fears from the core of your human existence. The net effect is that individuals are restored back to the place of power and with full expression, moving effortlessly through life.
If you are someone who wants to step up fully to your life and no longer feel dependent on a coach/mentor to help you get there, but feel a dreading sense of anxiety when you think about stepping up, contact me via the link below for a complimentary phone/Skype consultation to get you started.
Felicity Muscat is the Founder of The Institute of Self Mastery which was created to help others fulfil the truest, highest, and most authentic expression of themselves in all areas of life.
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Felicity Muscat, former psychologist is now an international self-esteem, self-empowerment, and self-mastery life coach. Felicity is also a relationship and success coach, author of three best-selling books and Level 3 mind resonance coach.
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