Do you want to know how to create a desirable, passionate relationship?
If you have considered relationship counselling (also known as couples’ therapy, marriage counseling, or marriage therapy) to try and improve your romantic relationships and resolve interpersonal conflicts, I know that you’re someone who is committed to romance, no matter how impossible it may seem to find.
Relationship counselling alone can increase attraction, connection and love. From personal experiences of having relationships that were far from perfect. I know it touches on the real reasons why relationships break down and how couples need to aim at workable solutions to the real problems.
Getting your relationships back on track is only one part of the big picture – when a relationship fails so do other areas of our lives. When a love interest or partner triggers our fears, unmet beliefs and old triggers, it can throw our whole lives off track, and that is precisely what happened to me until after eight years of trial and error I figured out how to change it.
You see, I didn’t have a choice. I learnt as a young child, that relationships cause you pain and suffering, relationships cause you pain and hurt, relationships mean control, losing my freedom, never being able to do what you want, and a relationship is like a ball and a chain.
Before I realised what my negative perceptions of relationships wherein which were not mine and where making the decisions for me, I ensured, not only that I acted upon what I believed, but I also took on whatever beliefs I could to ensure I didn’t end in miserable ever after and or attracting someone into my life that would hurt me in which I learnt relationships were all about.
I to my detriment, become terrible at maintaining them, drawing great ones into my life and then poof, sabotaging it with my insecurities, fears beliefs, arguments. I knew nothing about how conflicts start, what creates them and didn’t have a clue as to why I was so dependant on others to make me happy.
So, however blocked you may feel at the moment, if you believe challenges are just temporary, and that excellence and being the best version of you is the only standard worthy of targeting – you can benefit from relationship counselling.
Understanding What Makes a Successful Relationship
I am Felicity Muscat, founder of the Institute of Self Mastery. I’m a trained Master NLP Practitioner, Master Mind Resonance Coach , author of over 200 articles In Psychology, Mindset, Success and Business & Relationships, A Relationships coach and Couples therapy specialist.
I have gained an understanding that the key to successful relationships is:
An extraordinary life is created by an ability to form relationships and create bonds to others.
We as humans were not designed to need space form other humans, or to be on our own. Yes, we can survive on our own, but what is optimal for our wellbeing is being connected to others in relationships and community.
The problem with not being able to create this, is we start to create things we do not want, that are the opposite of our desires. We start to believe thoughts such as, relationships mean hard work, relationships are painful, I am better off alone
Relationship counselling can be helpful for women and men who are struggling to get connection and attraction back in their relationships, who are at odds as to how to bring balance back to their thoughts, relationships and life
Who wants to feel secure with each other in the bond, even if you are distant and constantly fighting, and can’t stand the sight of each other so that you can recreate more love, intimacy and more time spend living their best lives together, not your lonely lives apart.
The Great Thing About Relationship Counselling is That Your Counselor Can:
- Provide a confidential dialogue, which normalizes feelings
- Enable each person to be heard and to hear themselves
- Provide a mirror with expertise to reflect the relationship’s difficulties and the potential and direction for change
- Empower the relationship to take control of its own destiny and make vital decisions
- Deliver relevant and appropriate information
- Changes the view of the relationship
- Improve communication
- Set clear goals and objectives
I do believe that expression of self is imperative for great relationships,
I found that along the journey there were another 10 elements that create amazing relationships. If you want to read more, you can download my free guide below on the ebook , the book contains excerpts from the below.
TEN STEPS TO FULFILLING A DESIRABLE RELATIONSHIP
Step One: Know who you are and what vision you want to create for your love life,
Step Two: Conscious Positive Thoughts Create Positive Actions,
Step Three: Self Awareness is a Compass for Self Mastery in knowing what you believe you are worth,
Step Four: Know that we have value for who we are, not what we do,
Step Five: Respect and Honour Your True Self be your true self and don’t be afraid that it will cause rejection by our spouse,
Step Six: Express Yourself and Speak Your Truth, know you have value,
Step Seven: Believe you are whole and complete and remove anything in your thinking, convincing you to need anything from another person and watch your lack of attachment attract it to you,
Step Eight: Stop Trying to Rescue People,
Step Nine: Create Emotional Maturity and Sexual Intimacy and remove yourself from masculine-feminine restrictive roles,
Step Ten: Be the Change that you Seek
If you want to start experiencing amazing relationships in your life, click the link below to download my 100% free guide today!
Free Guide: 10 Steps to Amazing Relationships
Download: “10 Steps to Amazing Relationships” to start to bring back the attraction, connection and love in your relationships.
Felicity Muscat is the Founder of The Institute of Self Mastery which was created to help others fulfil the truest, highest, and most authentic expression of themselves in all areas of life.
If you have tried other approaches that have failed and are ready for change, request a complimentary introductory phone/Skype coaching consultation to help you get started on your journey back to your peak performing empowered and alive self today. To learn more and explore others’ success stories, download Felicity’s eBooks.
Felicity Muscat, former psychologist is now an international self-esteem, self-empowerment, and self-mastery life coach. Felicity is also a relationship and success coach, author of three best-selling books and Level 3 mind resonance coach.