Self Confidence affects every area of our lives from our career, health and wealth to our relationships. But not everyone always feels confident – you might wish that you could remove negative thoughts from you mind and unlock your full potential.
Confidence is directly connected to our self esteem, the choices we make and do not make, and our ability to attract and or be able to keep a partner in our lives.
I want to show you that confidence is a state that is your natural state – and that there’s a simple process you can use to remove negative thoughts from your life.
I am Felicity Muscat, founder of the Institute of Self Mastery. I’m a trained Mind resonance coach author of over 200 articles on Psychology, Mindset, Self Development and Confidence Coach, life coach and working on Skype with clients in 21 countries, and Level 3 practitioner of the Mind Resonance Process.
I help people who are struggling with mindset challenges, confidence issues, whose current level of self esteem and confidence limits what they can be and do in the world.
I help those who struggle being themselves and want to have confidence in who they are and what they can do in the world, and I help them develop the right foundations to achieve that.
What led me to this career was my own drive to stop at nothing to master my own confidence issues. In the process, I learnt this simple understanding:
Self Esteem is not generated by knowledge or techniques as even if one is able to attain a small level of success by a technique or trick the level of self-esteem will beat that person back down, to a level of worth equivalent to the low level of self-esteem.
Self Esteem is the way one sees themselves is it shaped by external programming by the way we were treated or not treated and in turn, the creates negative self-perceptions we learnt about ourselves. In order to change negative self-perceptions, creating low self-esteem. We need to remove the limited labels that are causing it.
Once you remove negative thoughts and negativity, your level of self-esteem increases and in turn confidence is then generated by the new self-perception. The result? You can effortlessly make better choices to improve the opportunities available to you in the attainment of your desires.
Confidence and this natural state cannot be present if you are feeling insecure, lonely, in need of validation or love, in need of being cared for, feeling afraid or vulnerable.
This is a very compromised state to live in and can severely impair one’s life and potential for happiness and opportunities available.
So firstly, what causes this needy and desperate state?
Remove Negative Thoughts and Build a Stronger Foundation for Your Confidence
If you would like to know what causes confidence to grow and how to get your confidence level extremely high, then you need to understand that lasting foundational confidence lasts is not built by taking more action, or the act of doing, as you may have been previously taught.
It is not simply just that the individual has received poor parental care or attention. In large part, it is mainly due to the fact that that the individual carries within them memories of such deficient care, and with that carries, negative self esteem lowering beliefs, limiting the persons true esteem and confidence.
These memories essentially program one to believe negative things about themselves such as I am weak, vulnerable, defective, deficient, incapable of looking after myself, afraid to be alone, need others to be with me to feel safe and secure and so on and this is something confident people do not have.
Much like when a computer that has old or defective software installed it cannot meet advanced demands requested of it. In the case of the individual the ‘demand’ refers to living life capably and independently.
When someone is programmed this way, they seek out others in desperation to fulfil these needs and to palliate their inner turbulent emotional state.
So what can be done to alleviate this self-destructive cycle?
Well if it was a computer what would you do? In short, you would update the programming so that you can achieve your goals.
In the case of a a human mind, the situation is somewhat similar.
The ‘program’ here consists of all those negative or unhelpful memories that generate limiting beliefs and negative emotions in the individual. So this ‘program’ must be erased and a new and more effective one ‘installed’ that will remove negative thoughts from your life, and allow you to experience your natural confident state.
It’s really as simple as that, and it is just as easily done.
Is this possible? Yes, but please do not confuse what has just been said with psychotherapy or some form of behavioural conditioning program as this is not what I’m referring to.
Rather it is an entirely new process that rapidly and effectively helps one to rid one’s self of the negative program, remove negative thoughts from their life and reconnect to their true and powerfully creative self that is their Life Force Energy.
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Felicity Muscat is the Founder of The Institute of Self Mastery which was created to help others fulfil the truest, highest, and most authentic expression of themselves in all areas of life.
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Felicity Muscat, former psychologist is now an international self-esteem, self-empowerment, and self-mastery life coach. Felicity is also a relationship and success coach, author of three best-selling books and Level 3 mind resonance coach.