How to Stop Procrastinating For Good

Are you desperately trying to stop procrastinating, so you can take back control of your life and start to realise your true potential? It can be hard to know where to start or what to fix. 

Contrary to what many might believe, laziness is not the reason you find it hard to stop procrastinating. Did you know procrastination is actually driven by negative feelings and beliefs, such as:

  • The fear of failure
  • Fear of disappointment
  • Fear of taking responsibility for one’s own life
  • The need to remain dependent of one’s friends, parents or loved ones
  • The fear of facing the world and becoming an independent adult
  • The lack of self confidence
  • The belief that one cannot take care of one’s self
  • The fear of being alone
  • The fear of success
  • The need to get revenge on one’s parents for past abuse/neglect/humiliation and so on

This negativity is rooted in old negative memories of failure, neglect, failed nurturing, disappointment, abuse, humiliation, bullying and so on, which remain stored within the subconscious mind. This is the very same thing that regularly hijacks your mind and life and drives you to procrastination.

Did you know that it is now possible to completely and permanently delete these negative memories, put an end to the negative thoughts; feelings and stop procrastinating altogether, for good? Want to learn how?

To understand what is going on here, let me give you an example of how one can begin to release these emotional roots and stop procrastinating.

How negative memories undermine your ability to stop procrastinating 

Let’s say a person experienced abuse during their childhood. The negative memories of such abuse remain stored within oneself and continually generate feelings of anger, low self-esteem, low motivation, low energy, low enthusiasm for life, worthlessness, inadequacy, badness, sadness, victim-hood, fear of being punished/forsaken, feeling undeserving, and so on.

I’m sure you can see these serve only to undermine one’s desire and the ability to move forward in life, to unleash their full creative potential or create a happy abundant, deserving and fulfilling life. The sense of inertia that this negativity creates often feels so insurmountable that it literally paralyses the individual; which is what we refer to as “procrastination”. Subsequently, it even drives them to beat up on themselves for their procrastinating behaviour.

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This leads to a vicious negative spiral down to death!

In order to begin releasing oneself from this spiral, we need to look at how their beliefs i.e.; their negative memories of abuse, etc. are actually “serving” them.

Now I know this will sound bizarre to many of you, but follow along with me for a moment and this will become clearer.

How do negative memories supposedly “serve” individuals?

Well, one might hold the subconscious belief that their negative memories serve as evidence for their unworthiness. So if they believe themselves to be unworthy, the idea of striving for a happier life simply would not make sense. Because, if they did and managed to achieve any measure of success, there would be a fear that it would all be taken away and hence their efforts would have all been in vain.

So does the feeling of “one’s success being taken away” sound, or rather feel, familiar to you? If so then possibly you also have these emotional blocks living within.

So if an individual believes that their success might be taken away from them, they would simply avoid making any efforts to improve their lives; thereby “seemingly” avoiding further disappointment, hurt, sadness, loss, failure and so on.

In other words, they would effectively have found a strategy to protect themselves from ever again experiencing failure of any kind. Such a person should invariably feel safe, secure, at peace, calm, relaxed, at ease, immune, resilient, confident, able to take on anything they chose, feel good about themselves and hence are able to create a full, happy and fulfilling life!

Now, take a moment and pause to notice how you are feeling inside.

Many individuals, if they have followed the example above, start to feel some of the following: feelings of release, relief, lightness, feeling unburdened, calm, energized, empowered, resilient, strong, motivated, and confident to name a few.

If you are feeling any of these, kindly place one hand over your heart and as if you are speaking to yourself from there, simply affirm to yourself that you like (if you do) these feelings. Notice how they start to get stronger.

Although you may not completely realise it, you are beginning to come back into your mind/body and re-assume control of it, yourself and your life.

If that resonates with you, in the same way as above, affirm that too.

So if you are feeling surprised, excited, and inspired to fully take control over your mind, body and life, to delete all the remnants of your negative intruder, and finally stop procrastinating for good; request a free introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation with me that will get you started today.

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